UPDATE: Everything seems to be getting better again. We had a really long and serious talk on Sunday/Monday. He agreed to see a therapist to try to work on his anger issues etc. He is helping me with everything at home, we take a daily walk with our dog, communicate a lot better again and he is supposed to go back to school next week. His dad also stopped by today and talked to him about his options when it comes to school/job etc. Obviously I'm not completely over everything that has happened but I feel like he is finally putting everything in normal like it was before all the fighting. I told him this is his final chance and if he screws up again - I'm leaving for good and I'm getting a divorce.