That's a really interesting post DownandLonely. That has not been my experience with friends (I've seen men and women react in all kinds of ways as "cheater" or "cheatee" if you'll forgive the crass terms) but I'm only going off a small sample size...I haven't had close friendships with that many people so I don't really know what the larger population thinks. Personally, I think there's a lot of stereotyping going on for men and women. Sometimes I think perhaps we aren't so different as society suggests. But that's just my opinion I enjoyed reading your post D&L.