Thanks so much for all the replies.

Depression is not a one size fits all and it impacts so many lives all in different ways.

We will need to see each other at some point as we have lots of things are each others houses and keys and all sorts.

I'm willing to wait until he reaches out, go and meet him and see how things are then. If he still says he needs his own time then I will know I've done all I can to try and at the point I will really have to walk away