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My mother gave me an apartment where we both now live. I found a job and told him, that I'll wait a year for him, but no more, because I want to travel.
It's been 1,5 year now and we're still here and I'm starting to questioning his dedication. He keeps on telling my how awesome it is we has this apartment, we don't have to pay a rent and can basically live for free. The issue is, the apartment is mine, not his. My mother gave this privilege to me, not him. And he refuses to move abroad, because he keeps on telling me how good we're doing here.
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This would be a HUGE red flag for me about his attitude. He keeps saying how good you guys are doing YET he is living off your mothers kindness & calling that "GOOD" instead of having his own drive to get his degree fininished & have an independent life that both of you are in charge of. Not a good indicator for a long term relationship with someone with that attitude.
Also love has to be based on respect. It is not just a stand alone feeling. Can you really ever respect let alone TRUST someone who wants to sit back & take from people around him?
Just some things in the BIG PICTURE you need to think about.