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Originally Posted by LiteraryLark
If she's really playing childish games, she wouldn't be trying to contact you. She'd be out f*king another guy. She's trying to have a mature conversation with you. Why not just talk to her and see what she has to say? Acting like an adult means to hear both sides, not rally support to justify that cheating is the worse offense over breaking someone's trust irregardless of your intuition. The more I read the responses (yours and others) to this thread, the more I think this girl deserves more credit and a chance for her to tell her side of the story.
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A cheater trying to have an adult conversation, after the fact? Interesting take on this but in my opinion, an adulterous partner loses their right to have a conversation discussing any issues because they've cheated.
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Why exactly did she want to cheat, what did you do to give her the reason to? Just something to think about.
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This is exactly the excuse cheaters use to rationalize the deceptive practice of cheating. The most used excuse I hear over and over for those caught cheating is that the partner is one thing or another, did something to make them do it etc. Pro tip: Cheating is 100% a choice made by the cheater and is never the responsibility of the victim. Don't like how your partner behaves? get counseling, work it out or leave. Cheating is not a solution to a single thing that a spouse, bf or gf does that you don't like.