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Originally Posted by OmegaKindness
She understands that it is normal to get attracted to other people but doesn't get the part about my dislike/resentment towards her when I get attracted to other women. She thinks it is because deep down I don't really want to be in this commitment.
Has anyone else experienced this? Does anyone want to weigh in on this situation? We would be glad to hear what others think about the situation.
Thank you
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I agree that it's natural to be attracted to other people, but resentment towards your partner is a separate issue.
Maybe it's worth exploring unresolved issues in your relationship, or in the back of your mind.
Did you feel pressured or rushed to "settle" with her at any point? Is there something you thought you forgave her for, but really didn't fully?
You could explore whatever issue there may be, either in an individual or couples therapy.
