I do try to speak up because assertiveness, matters. At the same time, I pause and think of a way to say it diplomatically. It gets easier the more and more that I've done it through the years. I try to keep in the back of my mind the importance of not letting things slide or go without saying something.

Maybe with the tagged post which is fresh, say something like...phew, glad we're on the same page or glad I reached that bridge years ago..?