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Originally Posted by UCLAFan
I hate being asked what's wrong with you & why don't you have kids.i have had people say oh you must be picky & that's why you are alone.i admit I'm picky but for good reason.dated and lived with a loser when i was in my mid to late 20's & after i left him he staked me.i wasn't picky with him & now i know red flag when i see them
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I have sexuality issues but I usually find people understand when I tell them I have mh problems. Otherwise I just say I like being single, which I do, because I can do what I want when I want, and the whole motherhood thing, well I know I wouldn't make a good mother. But really it's none of their business and as someone else said it's an insult disguised as a question. Also it's very true that married people are probably just jealous which is why they can't handle it and try and make you feel strange. Relationships are overrated and it's a societal thing, others a lot of the time are just conforming, and would likely love to be in your position. And yes some are just sexist bigots.. you keep following your own path and do what is best for you, not for others to feel more comfortable about themselves.