My friends and family are modest about their traditions. Every year they make a big deal and fuss about getting things right and taking all they can give. Amazed at what they do and how they see, I know I could never be good enough to join them. My way to join them is not good enough and it never will be. If I stay I am a looser and if I go I could never make it right. I know they are my family and there is no escaping that, but how do I change myself to be more like them. I am wrong in thinking they should accept me how I am pre·cise·ly? I can’t make up my mind. Help