Well, staying off the sites, but that's a bit obvious. I can't much relate as I've got.... guess you'd call it "trust trauma" from my last relationship, and am too gun-shy to believe that people are who they represent themselves to be. Like sarahsweets, I worry for your safety. (Not to say I haven't done anything unsafe, but really, that was just with ex-BF and look where that got me...)

I can see how it would be enticing, but it really is dangerous. I suspect because of that, that "cold turkey" would be the way to go. What did your T have to say, or did you not have enough time to get into that part?