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Originally Posted by Daonnachd
Yeah, BeyondtheRainbow, I understand where you're coming from. When my dad died in November there was so much to take care of. I guess you'd say he was a hoarder as there was only a narrow path through the junk piled up in his place. Fortunately, my sis and I were on the same page. We got a large dumpster and tossed the vast majority of it.
Innerzone, a simple solution like that might also make it easier to interact with your sister when you need to. Of course, for both of you I hope it's not soon.
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I don't think we're going to claim his stuff. My brother might choose to but I'm leaving that one totally up to him. I want nothing to do with it.
I asked the guardian if he was a hoarder and he said no but it was just trash with broken furniture, evidence of animals living there (wildlife), filthy walls, floors ready to give out, etc. He suggested letting the landlord deal with it. I don't like leaving someone else the mess but it's not my mess. The landlord will at least have insurance to cover it all and the guardian said nothing is in condition to be saved.
I think I can cope to a point but that's the point. I haven't seen him in 20 years; nothing in there is going to have anything to do with me. Now to convince my brother....
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Last edited by BeyondtheRainbow; Jan 19, 2019 at 09:44 PM.
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