The way I see it, after 31 yrs of being married, you should consider yourself LUCKY that he's still interested in your body that way.

I'm really sorry that you don't think so. You're complaining about something I wish MY husband was doing!

BTW, I was molested and raped as a very young child. Thank God I can tell the difference between the grandmother, the sperm donor and my HUSBAND. I've also been married for over 30 yrs.

EDIT: Yes, I agree that he very well may be going through mid-life crisis and is trying to hang on to his youth. He's also 10 yrs younger than you? I'd do a quick revision of my thoughts and feelings and go on this last "wild ride" with him or he may find a young chicky-poo to go on it with him rather than you. If it takes therapy, so be it. Nothing wrong with that. What's not right is you thinking that he's "molesting" you.

You might tell him that he's exhibiting an alchoholic's behavior drinking all that beer, too.