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Originally Posted by Innerzone
My heart goes out to you, BeyondtheRainbow. What a difficult situation. I hope things go as smoothly as possible. What a nuisance that your siblings won't speak to each other. I totally understand your not wanting to see his house (my mother is a hoarder and I told my sister I'd try to help when the time came, but I really, really don't want to deal with any of her mess. We don't speak and haven't for years.)
Extra hugs. I hope you can get some better sleep.
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sorry I didn't answer this sooner IZ. I meant to and well, my attention isn't great right now
It's good that you are willing to help your sister when the time comes. I wish my siblings could put aside their differences since none of us had the relationship with him. None of us have spoken to my father in 20 years so it is really awkward for everyone. My brother seems to have the idea that there will be some memories or sign my father cared or something. I don't think so. The guardian said there were a few family photos and I would bet they are of my younger brother and not us older siblings (there is a 32 year gap between oldest and youngest). His mess won't fix anything. But apparently my brother is going to have to get hurt to believe that.
Families are so complicated.
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