I’d like to reach out to people in real life that I rarely see. I don’t really know how or what to say. It makes me so anxious.

I always lose the people I’m not anxious talking to anywhere other than in person.

And unless I’m dating the person (and erroneously assume they want to spend time with me), I’m not comfortable asking people to hang out. I have no idea who would be interested in stuff I’d want to do.