Well, I don't see anything unusual about it, reuters. I think this happens to a lot of people, actually. Although I don't know what caused these fights, can you share some more details? If you want to, of course. Perhaps she's only talking to you because she likes you as a friend. Or maybe she's interested in more, although I'm not sure since she's the one that refused a relationship. I don't think there's necessarely something complicated behind it. If you fear things may escalate, and you don't want that, then I'd suggest to just cut off contacts with good and avoid any risk. But if you're not seeing any potential threat, then I think it's ok to keep her as a friend. Just be careful with your behavior, as things like this can be very delicate. But I think you're handling the situation quite well. Sending many hugs to you