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Old Jan 20, 2019, 05:42 AM
reuters reuters is offline
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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky View Post
Well, I don't see anything unusual about it, reuters. I think this happens to a lot of people, actually. Although I don't know what caused these fights, can you share some more details? If you want to, of course. Perhaps she's only talking to you because she likes you as a friend. Or maybe she's interested in more, although I'm not sure since she's the one that refused a relationship. I don't think there's necessarely something complicated behind it. If you fear things may escalate, and you don't want that, then I'd suggest to just cut off contacts with good and avoid any risk. But if you're not seeing any potential threat, then I think it's ok to keep her as a friend. Just be careful with your behavior, as things like this can be very delicate. But I think you're handling the situation quite well. Sending many hugs to you
Well the fights when looking back at it are pretty immature.. most likely just late-teen stuff if you get what I mean. Doesn't mean I wasn't pissed about it back then. I tend to hold quite a grudge, takes a while for me to let go of things and take the initiative to be the one to apologize, been trying to work on that.

I honestly don't think things will escalate that much..., just that my current partner isn't too particularly happy about it so like you said, I'll have to be delicate about it. But I don't see any logical reason to cut off contact, she's a great companion to have.

Thanks for the hugs
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Thanks for this!
MickeyCheeky