As for dating sites, meeting someone there tends to force/trick me into sexual situations. I don't find it safe. Even if I did, I have trouble finding anyone I would be interested in. I mean, I know I have to settle, so I don't know why I have any standards at all....just from reading about them I already know they're going to hurt me or not accept me/make fun of me so I really don't want to approach them (wouldn't know what to say even if I did).