I tried nicely and calm and a bit sad, and she said "its not me, it is you and what you been through, you not the same." HOW RUDE. I'm on medication now and I'm more "normal". and I know that "normal" people do not act like this. I asked her to spend some time with me in the basement and she said her shows were own and will be down later. I've asked her many times and her shows are always on, and when they are over it is time for me to go to bed. And every time the mail goes, she will not walk down to get it and makes me get it or she drives down. And lately she keeps asking me if I got my tax refund yet. What does it matter if I got it, it is not for her, but I know she will ask me for some. And today, she got another phone call from jamacia (they always call, but she denies it) and I listened in and they were cons. Asking for money so they can ship her lottery winnings. Come on! and she fell for it before, so she will likely do it again. it makes me so angry and sad at the same time, and I don't know how to deal with it. I would love to move away, but don't have money saved, or a good job and I'm scared.