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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky
I think this may not be the right time for her, FearfulMother. If she's so scared of being pregnant, then perhaps it's best to avoid that route. If she still wants a kid, there are other ways, I believe - what about adopting one? Sure, it's not the same thing, but it sounds like a good option to me. Unless she absolutely wants a child of her own, I'd advice this to her and keep it into consideration. Childs and pregnancy are a serious thing that needs a lot of thinking, so if she has so many doubts I'd suggest to avoid it for the moment and maybe wait. I'm so sorry she's going through this 
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This fear keeps of recurring. She was ok twice, when she was pregnant is just now prior to the IVF (that is scheduled, not unintentional) that she is afraid. She wants her own baby, not adopted.