I did it many years ago when husband and I were not married yet and he cheated, but it took therapy, a lot of restrictions on his privacy, and a lot of time. I just found out a couple of days ago that something I said a month ago was interpreted by him that I no longer wanted be with him and was leaving him, so he pursued a relationship with someone who he did computer work for. It didn’t reach the sexual point, and he called her and broke it off while I listened. He doesn’t want our marriage to end. Do I want to go through the work of trying to trust yet again? I don’t know. He says he will do anything, but words are just that. I am still trying to process my grief and anger—this on top of physical and mental health issues that were already there may be too much.