Decisions take time and planning

I am so sorry that this has happened to you.

I'm not sure that I have words of consolation other than those. Having to reconsider long term future plans is daunting, to say the least. Especially while recovering from a back surgery/injury. I saw your post on the forgiveness thread. What a major blow to all the progress that had been made. Where's his upholding the sickness/health promise? What was he thinking?(rhetorical) Will survival independently be possible?
Can your home be modified to live separately?