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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Decisions take time and planning 
I am so sorry that this has happened to you.
I'm not sure that I have words of consolation other than those. Having to reconsider long term future plans is daunting, to say the least. Especially while recovering from a back surgery/injury. I saw your post on the forgiveness thread. What a major blow to all the progress that had been made. Where's his upholding the sickness/health promise? What was he thinking?(rhetorical) Will survival independently be possible?
Can your home be modified to live separately? |
Can’t do anything to change the home situation, we already have separate bedrooms due to my chronic sleep issues. Apparently what he was thinking was that I no longer loved him or wanted him around, that I’d go to my parents and decide not to come back. I had considered leaving, but never said so because it wasn’t a plan, just a thought. I could not support myself as I can’t work full time. He says even if I leave he doesn’t want a divorce so that I still have health insurance. After 19 years I guess couples therapy is worth a shot. It was just really crappy timing.