hi...all my life ive always thought about the "what ifs" and ive always had paranoia and anxiety...i have a girlfriend who im in love with and lately ive been extremely paranoid about her flying...i keep thinking about the "what ifs" and its driving me crazy...she isnt even flying for another 8 weeks yet i still cant get it out of my head...sometimes i even think "what if god is giving me a sign"...thats the one that makes me most insane...but then sometimes i think to myself that its retarded that i think about this stuff and then other times it feels so real...the thoughts go back and forth...even though ive always thought about the what ifs in my life, ive never been this worried about something...ive always been able to move on in past situations but this one just wont go away...what should i do???...can i have some advice