I'm so sorry, Foo Fighter I think the best solution is to just be honest with them. Tell them that you're grateful for their help, but that you can manage the situation by yourself pretty well, and that you prefer to avoid the topic. If they do continue, just repeat this. Try to change the topic of discussion if they do bring it up eventually. Hopefully they'll understand, sooner or later. I'm sorry you're struggling with your finances. It seems like you're doing your best to manage this. You've got this! You can do this! You're strong, I know that. I believe in you. Please don't give up. Hopefully things will get better soon for you and your husband. I hope writing here helps a bit. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help. Sending many hugs to you