View Single Post
 
Old Jan 22, 2019, 03:08 PM
s4ndm4n2006's Avatar
s4ndm4n2006 s4ndm4n2006 is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Jul 2014
Location: limbo
Posts: 2,052
Quote:
Originally Posted by pixielouwho View Post
Hi, I will try to make this not horribly long. My husband has had a hard time dealing with my mental and physical issues, and has several times vented his frustration and anger on me, despite my asking him to find a therapist or support group to help him instead. He briefly went to therapy and supposedly joined a support site. This has gone on probably close to a year. We had a big blow up a month ago, and I told him when my back fracture healed I was going to go visit my parents out of state for a short time. He leapt to the conclusion that I was leaving him, though I hadn’t decided that really, and he proceeded to initiate a relationship with a woman he did computer work for. All behind my back, until I found some texts from her. It wasn’t sexual but likely would have been eventually. He has ended it with her and wants to save our marriage. I honestly haven’t decided what to do, and my depression,anxiety,anger are out of control. Cried nonstop yesterday. Any comforting words are appreciated.

sounds like likely he would have found an excuse to cheat eventually and he just used the opportunity to such end.

to be honest I don't know all the details but if he's cheating or cheated, I'd go to your parents with the plan to stay there and leave his butt.
Hugs from:
MickeyCheeky
Thanks for this!
MickeyCheeky, pixielouwho