Not sure what your looks to do with getting a date. Good looks isn’t a requirement for anything.

She might not be scamming for money but she is likely scamming to get to the US. Otherwise why a full time employed woman with a young child spends all day every day chatting to a total stranger. Who even has a time or attention span for that? What for? But if you feel that it’s a right thing to do then just be careful.