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Old Jan 23, 2019, 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver View Post
She said she thought about it for ages before asking. Our boundaries are kinda blurry as is anyway.
I feel it will change things because I will get confused about our roles and will probably see her more like a friend. I have been to her house before in different rooms but this will be very different and we will be sitting side by side for about an hour too!
Especially in this case you should not do it. It sounds like it could make things mothe complicated.

T and I did a lot of things that would be highly frowned upon, however we were always able to keep therapy and outside of therapy totally separate. We never discussed therapy when we were outside of of the therapy relationship. I sure therapy we never discussed things that happened outside. There once was something outside of therapy that I was concerned would complicate things and we discussed it more in depth in an email but never in the theraput room.
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Thanks for this!
Out There, weaverbeaver