I'm so sorry, Paraisiut39 It must not be easy to deal with him. Please don't give up. Try to stand up for yourself and explain to him that you're an adult and that you can make your own decisions. How do you think he would react? Like divine1966 has suggested, if things get violent call the police. He needs to learn that you're an adult and that you can take control of your life. It's a good thing you've got a job at least. Can you save some money so that you can move out as soon as you can? I'm so sorry. Please try to hang on. I hope things will get better for you soon. Stay safe and take care of yourself. I hope writing here helps a bit. Feel free to PM me anytime. I'm always available if you need to talk. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you