(Disclaimer: this is regarding my feelings, about my therapy only.)

After 7+ years seeing this t, I left 7 weeks ago tomorrow. In hindsight, I probably should have left a long time ago, except I wasn't ready to because of my attachment to her. And I can't really even say that I should have left sooner because even though I may have stayed mostly for the 'wrong' reasons, we still did really good, deep work together mixed in there with what had become too much friendly-type conversation and the last 'big' piece of work happened in mid to late September. After that we began winding things down. I don't consider any of it a waste though, I think that overall, it all worked just the way I needed it to and I am very thankful and grateful for having had her as my t. Anyway I finally left because I had a dream that very clearly told us it was time (dream work was a big part of my therapy); and when we talked about that dream, ending therapy just felt right to both of us. And almost 7 weeks out it still feels like the right decision.