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if I felt so competent and functional and basically, happy, all the time, would I need to go to therapy anymore?

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I was thinking similar things today. I'm feeling pretty good today. The last few sessions have gone well. Do I really need to keep going?? Then I realized that I've been worrying the last 4 days about how I am going to tell my husband, I have an appointment today. I'm off work and he is going to ask me, where I'm going. I hate having this discussion and I know I just make things worse by avoiding it. Hate the inquisition: Why are you still going there, what do you talk about, you don't need that crap, if she is so good why are you still not meeting all of my needs???

Obviously I still have some issues to resolve yet.

Sunrise, enjoy the fact that you are feeling functional and in control today. Just try to accept that even if you are functional you still deserve to go for a while yet. It sounds to me like you are still dealing with a messy situation.Until the divorce is complete, the custody issues are all resolved, and you and your kids have had some time to adjust to this new life, you should keep the therapy door open as a way of maintaining your sanity.