Kaika: The two categories you mentioned Histrionics and Avoidance do go very well together. It is because of one that we have the other.

I am shy and do not feel comfortable around people. It is not because I do not want to be among them. It is because I do want to be among people and want to be noticed, but I don't feel comfortabel because I lack the social skills to do it. I am screaming to be noticed as a member of the "group" but I don't know how to do it because I am shy.

I have the same two categories.