So I finally had my dr exam today, it was not fun at all, and the guy DR was blah. Anyway... so the nurse was trying to be friendly and was asking about my surgery. She's like "You are very young for that" and I made it known, "I never want kids, never have, never will, I can't imagine anything I'd hate more than being a mom" She looked shocked and was like "Well what about your partner?" I said, I didn't have one (but it's nice she assumed I'm not ugly enough for one) and said "Well what if I did and he did?" I said "We wouldn't be dating"
She really was confused and kept asking me questions about if my friends have kids and all this, I was being friendly because I try to be polite especially when I'm anxious but I found this so intrusive, like lady, does it really matter to you at all? No, so shut up and stop judging me. I hate how people assume all women want children and marriage. I've never wanted either. I remember as a kid, I would tell my mom "I don't want to be a mom, do I have to?"
Marriage could only happen for me if I REALLY loved him and it was a quick vegas wedding with no family, otherwise it's a hard pass for me. I'm very much set in my ways.

Anyway... so ya, I was annoyed then the old no personality DR made things even worse. Glad that **** is over. Wont be seeing him again