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Originally Posted by Paraisiut39
Things I cannot do because of him
Drink a glass of milk without permission
Drive
Have any kind of discussion on anything
Drink a Diet Coke (those are your mother’s @#$&amnit)
Get a ride to the store for dinner
Go anywhere without explicit permission
Why. You ask?
Because he is controlling, angry old man who wants completely control every part of my life. I am a 39 year old woman , who this man will not let grow up. He never speaks to me like a human. I am in remission, I just got a job. But I’m terrified this man will throw me in the abyss.
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Unfortunately, many parents don't fulfill their duties when they bring children to this life. Their only job is to create children that are capable of facing hardships in life and be independent and strong human beings. I understand what you are saying, because my parents are abusive, controlling, and overprotecting, and I have suffered a lot with them. If your health allows, I think the best course of action is to wait until you are fully capable on your own, and then move out. In the mean time, I would stand up to myself in a non-provocative way, or just ignore him if you feel you would be in danger.