Two of my friends and I had the same reaction to everything, and I suppose I should pass this question on to you. "I don't feel as bad as I should. Is that wrong?"

The rest of this post will be sort of hypothetical. In the event that sex itself comes up.

I have to admit I don't see any problem with anything that could happen. I wouldn't be compromising myself, there's a 0.1% chance that I could get pregnant, none of us have any STDs, and we all have enough of an understanding of each other that we can't really end up hurting one another.

I've never had any desire for sex, and I still don't, but only because I see no reason for it when I can, um, take care of it myself. Neither of these boys has been interested before, either, but if they were I wouldn't reject them.

I can't say I really value my virginity in and of itself. I do care about my health and well-being, so I wouldn't do it if I wasn't on the pill, and as backwards as it sounds, I wouldn't do it if I were attracted to them. I've seen what "love" does in teenage relationships. It creates a facade of trust. Not to insult your situation, Rhapsody. I just see love as being way more dangerous than sex.

Am I wrong to feel comfortable with this?