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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver
T is really stuck, she did ring a professional but they couldn’t help her.
This won’t be a once off favour, it will be a weekly thing, we will be spending a lot of time very closely together.
This won’t be a problem for t but it will be for me. I already have very strong feelings and emotions for t. I have to really manage those very well. I get so confused with my feelings sometimes. T recently said she finds me very attractive and really likes me. Of course to somebody else that would be a lovely compliment but to me it means “oh, t LIKES me” in a completely different way.
I am going to try that ask Kathleen thing tomorrow, thanks echoes and everyone who took the time to respond so far.
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You've answered your own question. Whether it is ethical or not is irrelevant for you cause it will adversely affect you and your therapy. The dodgy nature of the request is just extra reasons to say no. And maybe look for a different t. She's put her own needs first here.