I can only echo what the others have said, and what you know to be true in your heart of hearts.

Boundaries exist for a reason in therapy. They are not there to protect the therapist. They are there to protect the client. As a client you are already vulnerable. There is no way you can be her "employee".

This just screams of so many boundary violations.

I hope you can look after you and find the courage and strength to say no. And then find a new therapist.