My deal is simply this: I just want to be left alone. I HATE my job, I HAVE to do it because my husband cannot manage money. I just want to work my day, get my pay, and get the hell away. I don't CARE which married man "Jane" is supposedly sleeping with. "Jane" doesn't affect my paycheck or my marriage or my home life. I don't care about "Jane". Also, since I DON'T talk to you, don't think you know all about my life and what (or who)I am doing.