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Originally Posted by Waterloo12345
Hi Shehulk. It's very very hard for you and sending lots of positive vibes. I have a good friend in a DV situation and she is not ready to hear, which is ok, so one can only support.
Happy to do that but you said comments are ok so I'm chancing it. Your child's t gave you that info. Is that because your child is reporting it to her in their sessions? Do they see it? Are they upset about it? Is this a wider issue now?
But, that aside, your t is not going to get sick of you. He's willing to move things around. He wants to help. I get the not wanting something if it won't happen and child care is a bugger to resolve but it sounds like you do want it but are afraid?
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SheHulk, I wondered the same when I read about your session, if your child is aware of what's going on or at least has some sense of it. Or did you tell your child's T at some point about it? I think the T is just trying to look out for you (and your child).
And I agree that your T won't get sick of you. I had the same fear with moving to twice a week, then when I have an extra session at times, I've made comments about how he's probably tired of seeing me, and he's said no. Once I asked if he ever saw my name on the schedule and thought "Oh, no, not LT." He said he's never thought that. And his words, body language, and actions match that. Your T would not have offered it if he didn't want to see you that often. I hope you can make it work with child care.
