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Originally Posted by Alpha03
There's too many things to say here.
For a long time I told her I've been bullied, abused by my uncle's, aunt's and she's just not willing to believe me. There were days I've been crying and she said why and I say I can feel the trauma of the bullying, abuse again.
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Is she really close with your uncle and aunt to where she would be able to overlook or avoid addressing how they treat you?
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There's many times she's been manipulative, saracastic saying "why do you want to say hi to the uncle when she say this" something around this but she's been very manipulative. She seems to do this in a manipulative way.
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Could you re-explain this? I do not understand.
]quote]One of the uncle's didn't even buy me a present(she's seen it) but doesn't question his integrity, they are not even helping me out in anyway and my cousin did something and she says "you should see the doctor" when I gave her full proof of it.
[/quote] Are you upset because your sister got a present and you did not? Do you think they should buy you a present or have they in the past? Are they supposed to help you out? In what ways?
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Even my dad says my uncle, aunt's are so and so and she just doens't listen, she probably know he's telling the truth. I don't think she cares if my uncle, aunts treat me and my father poorly. Everytime we bring up how the uncle, aunts have treated us she honestly doesn't want to hear it by her actions.
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Is it possible that she doesnt have the same experiences with your aunt and uncle so its hard for her to see your issues?
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Between 2005-2012 she never once talked to me and I did nothing wrong. She would look at me angry and talk to me angry. that's abusive behaviour.
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Do you mean she ignored you while in the same room? Or do you mean she just didnt see you anymore? Being angry and talking angry isnt always abuse. Have you ever asked her why?
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At other times when I went to a party if I was to talk to her she would look at me angry and talk to me angry and even now.
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I have to ask.. why talk to her? Why deal with her?
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She lies a lot too saying she's going to stay at her friends house in city x but the thing is she doesn't have a friend in city x and she's lied other times too.
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Why do you care if she is or isnt going to see a friend in the city or whether she actually has a friend in the city?
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I ask her can I borrow this from her and she says she can't find it but she knows exactly where it is.
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Well maybe she doesnt want you to borrow her things and rather than say no, she just says she doesnt know where something is.
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She's an untrustworthy person too.
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How?
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She's got everything what she wants but believe me if she didn't get what she wants she would have been an overbearing person.
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What makes you say this? I know I asked a lot of questions but I wanted to know some context to understand better.