I get where you're coming from, weaverbeaver. C helped the previous therapist a few times with her computer. She didn't feel compelled. I think it actually felt nice to her to be able to help that therapist with her own expertise in some small way. So it was beneficial to her as well as that therapist, actually. However, that therapist wasn't always doing weird stuff like your therapist seems to have a habit of doing and C didn't have all sorts of drama and ruptures happening all the time with that therapist. I know you're attached to your therapist, but it also seems like the reason she has asked you to do this isn't because she actually thinks it's ok, but because, as you said, the professionals she's contacted can't help her (which sounds like a load of crap, but whatever).