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Once a T blurs the line you no longer have that person in the capacity of our therapist. I can not go into therapy to unload my petty bull crap to a therapist if I know about his pain and suffering or hard times he is having at home. OMG Especially if it so much worse than mine. Weaverbeaver go help your therapist but now go find a new therapist so you can still get help for the reason you are in therapy to begin with.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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