I have a sense that you find comfort in posters encouraging you to view your therapist's behaviours as exploitative or abuses of power. It is common for you to post descriptions of your therapist/therapy which contain examples of poor practice (of which you seem conscious, otherwise you wouldn't post) in order to subsequently defend your therapist and your reactions to her. There is surely some strong transferential stuff going on here - negative transference towards her which you want others to voice for you? Something projective? You seek others to voice the indignation which you can't fully allow yourself to feel?

Once a T blurs the line you no longer have that person in the capacity of our therapist. I can not go into therapy to unload my petty bull crap to a therapist if I know about his pain and suffering or hard times he is having at home. OMG Especially if it so much worse than mine. Weaverbeaver go help your therapist but now go find a new therapist so you can still get help for the reason you are in therapy to begin with.