I'm so sorry, peerue I understand this must be a very difficult situation for you. I'm not a parent, but if you still want to hear my advice, I'd suggest to just let her make her own decisions. She is an adult, after all, so she has every right to do so, no matter how wrong their decisions may seem. However, even if she decised to move on, I'd also suggest not to cut her out of your life completely. Keep the door open for her. If she realizes she's made a mistake, or she's struggling, try to be there for her - not only financially (that's your decision) but emotionally as well. I feel like that's the best compromise. I'm so sorry, I know it's not an easy situation, but she does need to develop her own personality and make her own decisions. And yes, even make mistakes. Hopefully one day she'll be more grateful towards you and realize how much you've done for her. But now may not be the moment. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you