That makes sense. Btw, I went in and talked with him today. I said IÂ’m sorry I had an attitude with him that day. He didnÂ’t feel like I had an attitude! I then said it really hurts that nothingÂ’s ever my business.

He: just donÂ’t ask anything personal.
Me: I donÂ’t know whatÂ’s personal or whatÂ’s not.

He then said something this personal should just be avoided. Now I understand the degree of personal around that topic. He said he ainÂ’t mad (I asked); yesterday is over. At that point, drive thru started ordering on his headset.

Crisis averted. Idk why I worry so much about pissing people off. IÂ’m paranoid AF. So srsly, what is personal and in what situation is it personal? How do people pick up on the nuances? Cuz I swear I discussed exes with friends (my exes and theirs) outside work before.