I was anti marriage right up until I got pregnant. My parents ruined the idea of marriage for me. I thought we had the perfect family...then BAM...hey kids we’re getting divorced. On Christmas Eve lol.
But I was pregnant, living with him, and had been in a monogamous relationship for 9 years. I figured it was safe enough. 16 & 1/2 years of married life later and he’s still my lobster.
My views on marriage have changed over the years. I don’t necessarily think every marriage is going to implode anymore.
There is something comforting about having someone that doesn’t legally have to testify against you. [emoji6]
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