"My real dad pays for the food!" And I get attacked then my step dad gets kicked out and my mom visits him all the time and spends no time with her children.

Is a relationship like a hard core drug physically to the brain?

Selfishness. Dishonesty. Cheating. Shallowness. Manipulation. Jealousy.

That's all I see in modern western culture relationships.

But that's just me. Better to just get an arranged marriage because they work out better than western culture marriages as they try to make things work for the rest of the family that organized for them to be together.