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Old Jan 26, 2019, 08:36 AM
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Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post
I think I am a little perplexed as to why this seems to be hard for you to understand and I do not mean any disrespect- but asking about someone's failed marriage isnt a good top\ic for most any conversation. I dont even know if its limited to the fact that it's your boss, its just one of those topics that-unless you are good friends or familiar with someone- should be off limits. And its also private. What if it was a woman and she divorced because she was physically abused? I would guess that could possibly trigger her or at least make her feel embarrassment.
Ruby has ASD and some human interactions and social clues are harder for her to decipher. She’s been asking people on here and hopefully her case worker what are appropriate work place behaviors. I’d say that going by what’s being shared on here she shows improvement as this issue at least isn’t the kind to warrant getting her fired etc it’s a work in progress. Sometimes step forward and two back but hopefully mostly learning progress

Good point about abuse and being triggered by such questions
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