@HopefullyLost1211:

I agree to a certain extent on your points, but I could say a lot of factual things that can offend people. For example, telling someone they're fat or a lot of people don't like you - that's not right, it's mean spirited. Also I take ruby's use of the word 'hateful' to mean negative or mean, etc. So, I put the emphasis on the supervisors approach and not ruby2011's who was just having an ordinary conversation. He accepted her apology, yes, but he should've been the one apologizing to her, not the other way around in my view, but good on her for doing so all the same.

You're all right ruby2011. I know you have your issues, we all do, and good on you for checking in with the community, as well. All the best!