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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Before you met this guy, what was going on in your life? What were previous relationships like? What makes this person the end all and be all to your existance? Why was he placed on such a pedastal that you were blinded to the idea that it's ok to let people go from our lives that cannot treat us with the utmost respect? Why isn't he a "Boy, Bye!" in your eyes?
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If he was a "good" abuser and by that I mean knowing how to abuse then he would have convinced her to put him on a pedastal, and be her be all and end all. I dont get the impression that the OP was blind. I think she was controlled.