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Old Jan 26, 2019, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post
If he was a "good" abuser and by that I mean knowing how to abuse then he would have convinced her to put him on a pedastal, and be her be all and end all. I dont get the impression that the OP was blind. I think she was controlled.
My concern however, at this point is the process by which the OP moves on from this. Sounds like there's a certain desperation in needing his approval in terms if only she gave in to this or that command. My question about what life was like before him, is relevant in my eyes. What place was she in before he chewed her up and spit her out?
Thanks for this!
marvelousness, sarahsweets